Disappointed...

Have you ever felt like you give a rat's ass a bit more than others?  I feel like in my friendships, I try and nurture to the best of my ability.  Sure, we all get tied up in things, or are busy... I'm a single mom; I get it.  But, there are times when you want a little more out of your friends besides a 45 minute coffee break once every 4 months.  You plan a day... Invite... And get, "Oh I don't go out" or "I'm super busy on the weekends, coffee breaks during the week are better for me"... This beezie is telling you that she doesn't have the time to put into your friendship.  I tend to take things like this very personal.  Some of my friends are like, "Lo, screw them... They obviously don't value your time nor do they deserve it."  It's hard for me to shake things of this nature off so easily.  I need to grow a thicker skin and not care so much.  The ones who care about me and value ME, will show it.  I can nurture those relationships.  It's much more fulfilling to have quality friendships over a quantity of mediocre.

XOXO,
Lo Lo